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Лабковский НОВИНКА 20 ноября 2018 - Как принять себя

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  • 00:00: hello dear friends of me the microphone is just not visible on it no such black stuff foam rubber somehow unusually like a microphone 53 years old wait for you today naked microphone for this secondly wear a windshield for appeared once again hello yes sound would be the most enjoyable is when Foam knob punch on iron microphone and the theme is something nice but how pleasant for everyone of course but for
  • 00:31: most why firstly we beautiful mari sits studio and trample but it will be pleasant to listen to and we also beautiful though both sexes and the theme here how to respond to comments on your appearance before i reveal I will tell you a story of my own radio practice many years ago I said on the radio my friends call and try yourself describe and here began a very interesting problems I will not disclose
  • 01:04: cards i will try to do it again we let's hear what people think about their looks and so we have some plump and how did you get old I can say the same on the hated in feminine since man is anniversary thin appeals well wait until got to posed in the masculine let's like you lost on young here so let's let's Mari here oh how are you bad
  • 01:34: are looking go to the vinyl slept not slept something you did not sleep a cottage I sang yesterday in my this is a masculine compliment in short here to my lovely woman's legs are like that beautiful here's how you react to it as on compliments about looks you are so beautiful but men are rare they say that's the criticism accordingly about appearance
  • 02:06: this is how you experience feelings how do you answer it breaking The fourth rule is not answer when he doesn't ask about it we'll talk about it's very interesting because appearance interests everyone Everyone has different reactions to appearance. someone is complexing and experiencing someone rejoices that stands for your reactions which self esteem is high low how people perceive you like you or not whether you make your remark
  • 02:37: close how do you feel close when they are you to make a comment so on here about all of this we are talking today good evening good come on as you my name is my name is willow I paratov them hello to you somehow comments your appearance is not well of course you everyone has some medicine certain features for someone not I know there big eyes like mine long nose but I don't think it's bad
  • 03:10: or well these are the features that emphasize some external appearance what is your reaction i always react humor in terms of not shelter always said this I accept a smile I remember the case when I'm with my
  • 03:46: familiar lyoshi color mascara light now chief doctor of the first city hospital I go Islands there sits the topic of Vasiliev this former head of a number of merchant with Misha Efremov I got used to the gram already weighed 110 his advice is Misha this is it that you are pregnant or something for you promised the muzzle would have given I at all should mom of membranes feel I or we, too, with humor or centuries not I reacted not actually a girl good evening good evening then man changed his mind about his appearance
  • 04:19: talks about a man before gets the first call and he says that his because he says big eyes so rarely will by the way usually eyeless men come across rarely men big eyes oh well rare the man says you have an example more you get that big eyes good evening ago hello hello and everyone even tea you will not drink but the question is you yourself
  • 04:52: like you well yes of course then let's go tell me how you look I'm listening to you start order with the head new items don't like what it looks like ordinary unusually since super super no nothing but by about the compliment the fact is that when
  • 05:29: I say you look oh how are you you don't look good i usually answer that principle into three categories girl girl and only you are good looks inside there and it helps the long cloud closed and to you calm does not happen about your appearance you have not heard this I
  • 06:02: happens or look good or very good you so much 2 option but there is no light, I probably holder's I do not go out on the channel element Well, of course in different ways we look all the more how old are i Of course I can say that you are correct so I mirror you and that's fine
  • 06:32: when doing a compliment it's nice it always nice and that's my answer got it thank you friends oh I ask to pay attention to the detail that is from you eluded you marry me too slipped away I said that for many years back I asked the listeners to describe their appearance in this faced such
  • 07:02: situations like to like of course how are you you see yes usually in the sense of not as juicy usually I start digging further the girl says yes nothing at all special meter question how can like what is not like ordinary nothing much will continue to call the topic is so good program started hello evening hello hello did not expect that
  • 07:32: a man does something like this comments about your weight
  • 08:08: for example the last time when met such and how do you react how and worry you worry that while you thin as it is thick dries thin this joke will die you are very complex about 120
  • 08:41: kilogram agree there are no games from the complexes more weight is increased here thanks for your call I am only one part I will read the message Marie here about you is written Marie beautiful princesses are written here unexpectedly thank you sorry sorry
  • 09:11: michael i just see a sequel here Please, Marie showed how she is reacts to me it seemed mihail that we gathered here to discuss how respond to criticism when this facet and ram the text something you're so close and here's the deal I think that the criticism is clear people who are going through
  • 09:41: acutely appearance of course they will respond violently but it's interesting when a girl they say how beautiful you are she is reacts how guys react which the community is not very used to such very much female compliment Olga is a skill writes when I am told that I am beautiful I agree but I'm really beautiful and light you got better answer Well so further in the answer answers good evening his hello my name is Irina device your transfer is very
  • 10:16: interesting enough for me Camp life turned out to be painful results to Irina because mom even though I am a grandmother myself but mom still very much criticize my appearance and what does she say specifically she here let's say extra branches and she can when my cartoon is accurate and visual although not I can in the roof of me planetary them mom but since you know a purely female to say well you are fat and already like
  • 10:46: you react and that you feel not said discharge and knows you and maybe after our conversation everything will be different that's what you feel that you are very upset and yes for that of course you consider yourself fat Well, no trouble or no, but I tried so persuade myself and give out I immediately I do not postpone for a long time I will tell you one right now
  • 11:16: interesting thing if you take two people with excess weight as doctors say full and one of them weight is driven to diet to go in for sports another accepts himself his weight then the other is much healthier in terms of psyche and much happier I understand explaining the end you have two options try to cry and ready again I ate again i need or skype well
  • 11:48: so what is it that has grown it has grown I personally like everything why choose the first such option victim as if to offend me not I want to cry even with her husband I'm afraid that my husband will throw that liza gums and weights no probably already suffering because of such replicas mom mom we'll talk again you can't jump yourself in your whole this one from logic that obama who himself
  • 12:19: so strange leads i tell you everything about mother behaves there it is interesting to this take every joke there is a share of joke mom outdated females and she needs you so that she can recoup on you because in general in any situation when one person tries to lower other than mom she does way enhances your self-esteem that is mom have more problems than daughter due to this, in fact, it happens
  • 12:49: replicas and so after this little why are you it says mom that it will answer stop eating gambling and I understand yes I stout well and you this why why did you say about it now but some purpose you pursue want to say here's how you think not how mom just goes from talking hi subject to let mom from generally adequate then or the world let's talk but often
  • 13:19: probably already quite old mom so of course such question 96 is well about 90 there you must leave peace but so how is it not even in mom yes it was when you were five years old now more than 5 so you only have one way out say that's what i have all arranges can't yes don't get off the float on familiar how to listen to the program before
  • 13:52: the end i'm at the end of the house very practical tips just not all at once yes only 48 years old Hello Michael, I noticed that if check is confident and positive smile no one criticizes him only does compliments objectively i'm not beautiful bouffant at myself very cool and not getting negative ratings only compliments knows trade here's better and you will not tell This Olga Olga Maria explains to you too
  • 14:23: no however the next story is interesting to everyone and how we look the eyes of others question and here is the answer as its and in surrounding what I mean when man doesn’t like himself for that should be slim caring we can short fat well here itself like and like others you need an example please outstanding
  • 14:54: comedian danny de vito which is up to the knee and generally not all but not to the knee to the navel is not all his movie partners and savage words and but he is so full of positive and and smiles that makes me all good light means when a man likes him somehow it looks very interesting the moment you haven't thought about when you experience yourself pleasure is purely aesthetic is you can hold 150 pounds while growing
  • 15:25: meter fifty him there is white you yourself like and you have it written on the face how mimicry is impossible like this trace our you never talk about it thought in the inter when you go understand back and legs you set straight and a little bit how to say vanilla could not look in and out say it we will call straight and a little bit careless side here there rules around looks a little
  • 15:59: in a different direction and comes from you feeling left yourself accepting yourself and then have you any self and confidence and you all is of so handsome and beauties but when you specifically kompleksuete clothes and so as we say in hotel drape nuances of your organism then you really focus on all this attention here this classic story wobbled even wear black and like alla boris on
  • 16:30: brought everyone the taste of a hoodie if you weigh more than a hundred kilograms the motto of Russo become and added here is how would tell you but the shakhunya is visible from went fat and specially dressed as fat and here are the people I want to say they perceive you as you do perceive yourself it is very important moment because facial expression how do you behave during a conversation where are your hands feet like you
  • 17:01: and Qatari akhejakova this for right hand workers go for the camera yes here when you start yourself like this lead immediately catches the eye that something you don't like yourself but when you lead open yourself and carry yourself like a man who loves you all start to like good evening good evening evening talk specifically about appearance do you like it looking like you
  • 17:33: react when the Yakuts comment when he makes a comment comments about the appearance I guess I was lucky except compliments only to walk down the street I a little not flaws but I don't let in
  • 18:03: your address say some bad I think that the memory I love will forget But tell me, do you like yourself? If you can write your own appearance as it will not be as it will let's start with the head of the head ogienko slim of course you can add but not worth it
  • 18:53: it is necessary here I want to say here you are somehow Cheerfully tell yourself you can believe I really like the box note the comparison with the first prada woman female cliff but i'm usually the type of legs for lunch hour do not look 45 South 35 I will drop everything I can salt to tell so already call tell me you are threatening michael here is tatyana writes to us that
  • 19:24: self-esteem should not depend on my appearance is quite me arranges for the comment to respond calmly and then what is the phrase women attach too much importance looks good would change this installation tatyana asks whether you agree you but here Michael can not remember that society but first society now she will say the word patriarchal she is true somehow used to divide women will make compliments what a beautiful woman but this stroke is not true
  • 19:55: agree and yes and no firstly we are not we can be independent of my appearance 57 years in all 57 years, I only saw one man was not such a friend earring fadeev who said the following I says seryoga often water like women of battle from blackness good but in those years back in the 90s we sat nights usually in bars and such not very sober so maybe there is another rest seriously said here I am
  • 20:25: I'm starting here so here I am familiar with a woman i start with her total father and when i feel that the places do not communicate well after this meat some kind of relationship tied and I say wait well some kind of lower appearance and singlet in general I do not pay attention here is one person Yes, I have a friend of such pain he lives in israel when we ran how our 70 ced girls headed
  • 20:55: take off I was always surprised we were really don't give a damn about appearance any more including dried and his never guilt lost and then the most so Georgian handsome I always did not understand how it is this listen are you going to marry sex a mystery at all what's the difference answered there will be no bright bath understood though I was 20 years old now a long time ago Pereryvchik fate gavi can look lengths began to scour after the break tell you know friends and cash
  • 21:25: continue our program is understandable we discuss today how you respond to comment I specifically play on criticism because you compliments about your appearance is beautiful ugly fat fat pig spine sticking to the navel of destra fan batan I'm not I know very funny bespectacled sounds on hebrew bags offer because glasses bear tells bags
  • 21:55: offer so here's how you react the main thing is that you still feel kind evening they may maria the flight of the chief I am packing on hand but the fish is very leave the phone to the newsroom was married do not leave the phone to the editorial further I have some
  • 22:31: some part of the body I was undergoing cancellation freak out and first year don't remember the words about the cleavage so much isolated there words are part of the back I know see how I second child I so we took to work on licking plan You heard the previous conversation, that's better
  • 23:07: accept yourself or work on it for accepts you our bright clothes do not like black and there not at all artero children of color but how here you say yes compliments and you probably that they answer gave win the war what are you I got so bad today and
  • 23:39: I already saw him kombat me excellent it does not affect the pope not clever I felt myself before printing pump over the plan here it is said that he changes me it doesn't spoil this was and shaved and red affects say
  • 24:11: yes here let's talk about it thanks you for calling also had a question question in is the next really something shorter what are you mikhail is me and think about what a woman sells of excess began eternity but here at all do not attach any value either women and men is practically impossible why because 8 percent information a person receives through sight
  • 24:41: and the first thing he faces is another person's appearance for him appearance carries a huge amount Information I do not know the national color skin times age and so on means further here but it is still on the machine what's going on there thousandths seconds when your brain evaluates another
  • 25:12: human appearance yes you for yourself makes and comfort your not your like and like attracts repels and so baby pdb so no appearance at all impossible to do about women women all life in the world have been addicted to men not all thank goodness but for the most part as if a woman is considered to be well so I do not think but outwardly formally chooses them men
  • 25:42: It turns out although a woman of course if correct yourself lead one and get exactly the one you want to get but we are not talking about this program so let's talk about the formal side and there are in Russia in particular very tough market though hard tons hard with it here again you go married and yet here they are not comes out with this attitude in men and women ratio is about one to two but in reality, the census may be wrong 60 to 40 or 55 to 45 a lot
  • 26:14: real carry physical people present life seems to me men are almost twice the world than women nonetheless that's because of all this to Unfortunately women give excess values ​​and correctly what they do wrong and not wasting time why I used to be on staff at some magazine a whole article on this she was with
  • 26:44: illustrations, for example, can you imagine you are the weight of the pier's wife thrown I can not even imagine my wife 320 exemplary a kilogram it weighs like a resetting tone with us James Bond does not even remember 120 kilogram of live meat on a banderas which is generally not blind-deaf-dumb nor once she is doing well with his vision more I went to his photo exhibition where he was
  • 27:15: photographed and showed very beautiful young girls naked and you saw his wife anders who was off page on 10 lena is the same and famous families could macro and us on their put things on one person in my opinion not too sclerosis lana because of the famous acting herself not our beautiful is difficult for us right there mom played it with hitchcock
  • 27:45: and listen to his daughter and now for more than 100 posts Michael we lose each other communities the exchange I was all redrawn I was it ten years older than soul to soul i am silent about wife woody allen who before that but many times was married one of his wives was we offer a the wife of Frank Sinatra, I would not take in ideal on how rate considering he married a stepdaughter complicated but I'm talking about looks and yes
  • 28:15: There are a lot of such examples. melanie griffith on whom thanks mamadova younger therefore memory is better for me internet working and savvy by the way so now I want to tell friends and see these examples have a lot of these blood and at the same time deeply unhappy and no one's favorite merlin monroe as speaks with not be born beautiful be born happy good evening hello, that's what interests me Hello again, it's nice that men
  • 28:49: take part in this conversation that do you think about your appearance like you react when or someone comments I thought that I was a good appearance but I slightly different question on the compliment not on the outside Christmas me compliments the last time a girl started doing such we did not notice as well that I am very good good yes and it says no
  • 29:19: positively very good for me, well, something like that do you know this situation likes money but you as a friend do n't have it in view of maybe including about as if you want time for years stay worth better somehow kinder and it turns out that no one needs an answer
  • 29:50: your question here stumped what to do does this mean that the question is to change girls thing is that you card you girls are generally some kind of abstract all the girls of the world say so so say those girls who
  • 30:20: like you good luck you would not now told but you do not match them because they need you know about men they say that many men love bitchy women and what to be so good girl and the man tells her how he tells you but does not know it is very good well, type 3 mu mu somehow freshly do not know not enough account so here is the same if in reverse side when many women love these but negative characters when
  • 30:53: positive so you they just don't they are needed by the heroines of your novel and you you just need to change your female surrounded because there are other women whose other love they like here people like you and this is a problem not only you have it many when man and woman don't match with me have a wonderful time channel you know what do you see here channel time
  • 31:23: now I know now I know and you do not know that time in this channel shows the whole content of the first channel in 50 years last I remember that 20-30 years ago there was an excellent gear she was called I do not remember how not three guys date blindly like that and three girls they mean got acquainted do not see each other and then each took a pair and had to match up a couple then we didn't go to Restaurants there is something else to a friend understood they received prizes
  • 31:54: some kind of trip there by sea ​​and many of them then got married so here if the transfer found every tree then i have a long look you start understand that some kind of dung kid he immediately pecked at some bitchy girl this bitchy girl in general did not pay attention to the skin of a bitch dudes and so on in the answer you understand to herself she is not your oh how says don't stand in all this volunteer Iowa Mari year and a half
  • 32:25: on the fact that we office work now working at home the rhythm of life has become I like it calmer and as a means I added weight 5-7 if and now when meeting I don’t ask old acquaintances I'm pregnant just like me Vasiliev or vice versa, did she give birth and wait for me story is speechless how to behave in such situations but as said server welcome and nochkin lost
  • 32:55: friend but I think this is the first rudeness and Secondly, I think what to say right on answer cottage cheese no I'm not pregnant and you Who like you already have several friends of this and any person and good evening good Hello evening hello Michael hello maria it is very nice that this the title of giving out here and me too situation of your appearance advice the scheme were once re-opened 34 years
  • 33:27: he was once younger were more beautiful because I married one then younger better as soon as I am also so society especially female society when I just really fit and say and what I'm pregnant Institute gift cooper sometimes because recovered a little bit recovered after
  • 33:57: birth so to say all right I top order below and try this I have a little belly belly there woman belly like a sideboard without dishes but you know how people like this perceive differently and when the bottoms are so the question I start early is very confused it is very unpleasant for me because seems like a deed something my people exposed floor chomsky question to his Often such people are found who
  • 34:29: very and toxic one last moment I had this when I lasted come to this man it well, as in dialogue time, I answer, and then why are you decided that I was pregnant she was lost from this question on really never I will give you such a seal blissful uah is well aware and felling Honestly, I just really understand what I take criticism and I feel bad I now want to change something for myself
  • 34:59: but let's say so according to what is given there does not indicate so well yes as well it turns out and frankly let's start with that you used to like your head all perfect as well as still labor shame perfectionism . everything must be well which you want to be beautiful here and how ara stripes of the shoulder strap agree but understand what's the deal for everything to be
  • 35:29: you need one perfectly love yourself and don't you understand it think that you can remove the belly for example or something else do it road to nowhere how old are you now will be 54 i will look better even better i think that yes I think by the time the muscles about ends and they look so good really i want to tell you that here i am
  • 36:00: I think that the road to nowhere I mean all the time improve because it constantly dissatisfaction Do you understand what it is but you will have a lot I don’t please everyone by all Julia 26 years old let's come after recon let's and then after advertising we keep talking about appearance about how you react to comments to her but Julia was 26 years old which you promised answer army yes no about
  • 36:31: not thought up their shortcomings no day You can find that July which is Julia give quarrels and promised to answer who will you find me now I will find so good evening here to you and I will look hello, please speak My name is Marina I wanted to show here such a situation that happens I know
  • 37:03: that i'm pretty and i know how to look very sexy and good and be attractive to the opposite sex but such a situation when i'm supposed to be dressed and look sexually some time for me if I see attention from the opposite I get very strong sex I want to remove all this jewelry washed from you it scare unnerve me i feel like something in this is not good, I can not understand what
  • 37:34: reason but disgusting abuse in childhood and adolescence well how to say so 0 it was probably worn that which is not complete violence and there was earth probably scared me this well, but that's it happens on the basis of fear Yes, what is the question? Well, I wanted to understand something is wrong with me 55 really start it doesn't always happen to you
  • 38:06: Beginner at least some kind of what it is ill be so sexy and attract the attention of other men when I understand that I am not doing anything bad and how to stop understanding you need to turn it probably yes and plus you can as you like to dress to go on so I do not react and what about Julia found everything is good for Julia Julia is 26 years old life complex about the contrived
  • 38:37: deficiencies after the birth of a son something Clicking stopped following I feel grams and look great I calmly all my soul that the program is trying to bring this light the idea that what ups fitness clubs than to experience a terrible feeling of guilt eating cake that is, not just eating but suffering as it were check-lists are crying here and say to themselves but all I ate it now will not have to somehow otmalivat is still there three kilometers
  • 39:08: run and so on and not is it easier accept yourself so what is I am a girl or you are not with you for 33 years on myself made up but just kidding how that became as radio wave 92 and how you decide in all and generally want to go in the center itself will be happiness mom headed what we can child weigh more mother calls clutch but it's all a joke to hurt me hard which stalin friends and there is not enough time I promised
  • 39:39: tell what to do with this happiness the stories are very specific here after our programs you come home try to undress in the evening to a goal that in front of the mirror look at yourself on yourself from head to toe and stand how many flocks and gradually accept head neck hands chest belly legs ass and tell yourself this is mine all this is beautiful not because i
  • 40:09: embedded or thick skinny or long but because it is mine I love it because that they have no such organism anymore that's just me and I am I and I a high self-evaluation then I have no choice. like believe me success that you will have in other people and beloved female hauling thoughts bottle of false gender will immediately why because
  • 40:39: that when we like ourselves we like it is much more important to people around than some weird chimeric appearance which by the way taste and changing were period fat liked won revenues and there is a tan fashion there is a fashion on white skin and that is blondes and brunettes are worthless race and take yourself is the only one the opportunity to be happy and all of you loved until tuesday